"People who love through their unevolved solar plexus center may try to control you. They may use anger, disappointment, guilt, judgment, coldness, indifference, or criticism to get you to do what they want. Or, they may try to control you by withdrawing their love. You may find it challenging to follow your own path instead of doing what someone else wants you to do. You may be so compassionate and loving that you want to please others by fulfilling their wishes. Extend this wonderful compassion to yourself. Your well-being and your life are more important than making other people’s personalities feel good."